It’s better to be alone than to be with the wrong person, I’ve definitely learnt that this year.
And ‘settling’ should never be an option. I don’t care how convenient it may be or how old we may get, we all deserve so much more than to be tied to somebody we have no real connection with just for the sake of having ‘someone’ around.
But it sucks being a female because we have to race against our biological clocks if we want a real shot at having kids. And if I’m being complete honest, I am starting to feel the pressure a teeny bit now.
I’m 26 and haven’t encountered a single guy who I could imagine spending my life with yet, and it’s not like I haven’t been putting myself out there. Forget finding a guy to love, I’m still waiting to meet someone I actually like as a person!
I’m not saying that I’m running around like a headless chicken, begging random men to marry me on the street just yet, but I am starting to wonder when I’ll meet the right guy, (not if because like I said, I’m only in the beginning stages of panic right now).
In an ideal world I’d like to get married in a couple of years and have kids one day, so it’s hard to keep myself from getting carried away making all of those calculations in my head. But I know that’s a dangerous game to play so I’m doing my best to abstain! #PrayForSharan
I’d just like to meet someone who actually gets me, someone whose character I can be proud of and who brings out the best in me and vice versa. Someone to go on adventures with!
I know that such a guy must exist, it’s just a case of finding him I guess; I repeat #PrayForSharan!
Anyhoo, in the meantime I suppose there’s nothing else to do except to continue living my best life and maybe, just maybe, I’ll stumble upon a gem along the way…
Just A Small Town Girl... 
Go find that guy!
I’ll try my best haha!
i am a man and twice your age
so i will say this
i agree
be yourself
and happy that way too
hope you get what you need
and then maybe what you want too
a good post
kudos!
Thanks for the wise words 🙂
It is a shame those biological clock doesn’t come with a snooze button
Lol tell me about it!
Have you tried saying that you don’t want a man, never want to get married and certainly don’t want kids? Knowing how the universe works, you’ll probably be happily married with three kids by 2021 😂 Thanks for the follow 😀
Hmm trick the universe using reverse psychology? I like the way you think haha. Thanks for stopping by, great blog by the way! 🙂
Thank you. Haha, I just realised that every relationship I’ve had, started purely by accident. ☺️😀
I think that’s usually the best way!
I was in your shoes 10 years ago…I have no wise words for you, however I will say keep doing what you want to do, because the people you meet while on that path are often the kinds of people you’ll want to have around for a while 😊
That’s exactly what I plan on doing 😀 living my best life and hopefully I’ll meet someone along the way
Good post and good way of saying to world that you are looking for someone 🙂
Thanks Tarak 😀
Fall madly and wonderfully in love with yourself … love will be drawn to you. The worst thing you can do to yourself is to put a timer on your life, you’ll find yourself running out of time every time. You’re still young yet, spend these moments, the currents, the now, falling in love with yourself, learning yourself, enjoying yourself and the magic that lives all around you … allowing what’s to come, or to be, come, and be. ❤
Thanks so much for your lovely comment 🙂 ❤
You’re very welcome ❤ Stay aware sweetheart, look for reasons to be grateful, and try to connect the dots in life as to why things are happening (and they are) in the perfect timing they are happening in. There is purpose in all things. ❤
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