“Tick Tock,” Says My Biological Clock

It’s better to be alone than to be with the wrong person, I’ve definitely learnt that this year.

And ‘settling’ should never be an option. I don’t care how convenient it may be or how old we may get, we all deserve so much more than to be tied to somebody we have no real connection with just for the sake of having ‘someone’ around.

But it sucks being a female because we have to race against our biological clocks if we want a real shot at having kids. And if I’m being complete honest, I am starting to feel the pressure a teeny bit now.

I’m 26 and haven’t encountered a single guy who I could imagine spending my life with yet, and it’s not like I haven’t been putting myself out there. Forget finding a guy to love, I’m still waiting to meet someone I actually like as a person!

I’m not saying that I’m running around like a headless chicken, begging random men to marry me on the street just yet, but I am starting to wonder when I’ll meet the right guy, (not if because like I said, I’m only in the beginning stages of panic right now).

In an ideal world I’d like to get married in a couple of years and have kids one day, so it’s hard to keep myself from getting carried away making all of those calculations in my head. But I know that’s a dangerous game to play so I’m doing my best to abstain! #PrayForSharan

I’d just like to meet someone who actually gets me, someone whose character I can be proud of and who brings out the best in me and vice versa. Someone to go on adventures with!

I know that such a guy must exist, it’s just a case of finding him I guess; I repeat #PrayForSharan!

Anyhoo, in the meantime I suppose there’s nothing else to do except to continue living my best life and maybe, just maybe, I’ll stumble upon a gem along the way…

18 replies

  1. i am a man and twice your age
    so i will say this
    i agree
    be yourself
    and happy that way too
    hope you get what you need
    and then maybe what you want too
    a good post
    kudos!

  2. Have you tried saying that you don’t want a man, never want to get married and certainly don’t want kids? Knowing how the universe works, you’ll probably be happily married with three kids by 2021 πŸ˜‚ Thanks for the follow πŸ˜€

  3. I was in your shoes 10 years ago…I have no wise words for you, however I will say keep doing what you want to do, because the people you meet while on that path are often the kinds of people you’ll want to have around for a while 😊

  4. Fall madly and wonderfully in love with yourself … love will be drawn to you. The worst thing you can do to yourself is to put a timer on your life, you’ll find yourself running out of time every time. You’re still young yet, spend these moments, the currents, the now, falling in love with yourself, learning yourself, enjoying yourself and the magic that lives all around you … allowing what’s to come, or to be, come, and be. ❀

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