It’s better to be alone than to be with the wrong person, I’ve definitely learnt that this year.
And ‘settling’ should never be an option. I don’t care how convenient it may be or how old we may get, we all deserve so much more than to be tied to somebody we have no real connection with just for the sake of having ‘someone’ around.
But it sucks being a female because we have to race against our biological clocks if we want a real shot at having kids. And if I’m being complete honest, I am starting to feel the pressure a teeny bit now.
I’m 26 and haven’t encountered a single guy who I could imagine spending my life with yet, and it’s not like I haven’t been putting myself out there. Forget finding a guy to love, I’m still waiting to meet someone I actually like as a person!
I’m not saying that I’m running around like a headless chicken, begging random men to marry me on the street just yet, but I am starting to wonder when I’ll meet the right guy, (not if because like I said, I’m only in the beginning stages of panic right now).
In an ideal world I’d like to get married in a couple of years and have kids one day, so it’s hard to keep myself from getting carried away making all of those calculations in my head. But I know that’s a dangerous game to play so I’m doing my best to abstain! #PrayForSharan
I’d just like to meet someone who actually gets me, someone whose character I can be proud of and who brings out the best in me and vice versa. Someone to go on adventures with!
I know that such a guy must exist, it’s just a case of finding him I guess; I repeat #PrayForSharan!
Anyhoo, in the meantime I suppose there’s nothing else to do except to continue living my best life and maybe, just maybe, I’ll stumble upon a gem along the way…